Can You Manage Workplace Stress?

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Posted on 2nd April 2009 by Charlie Frograrth in Success

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by Charlie Frograrth

Workplace stress is one of the most difficult forms of stress to avoid. You must work and once at work you will find many things to stress over. Stress in the workplace is not totally necessary. Like other stressors, there are methods to manage those found in the workplace. If you cannot avoid the stress, you can try to manage it.

Stress in the workplace often comes as a need for everything to be done immediately. For instance, your boss has given you a dozen things to do and they are all important. The problem arises when the workload exceeds the time available. In addition to the workload, someone is always asking for something you completed days ago or your boss is coming to you with more to do. It looks like it will never end but you can manage it.

The first step in avoiding the stress is to focus on one task at a time. Don’t try to multi-task as that will lead to failure impacting your system. Changing focus between projects takes its toll on your brain as it takes time to change your thoughts from one project to the next. Maintaining focus on one project until completion conserves your energy and thoughts instead of spreading them among various tasks.

One of the biggest distractions is your coworkers. Someone is invariably asking for your opinion or time to help them with their projects. If possible, fend off these time wasters to prevent loss of focus. Learning to say “no” can prevent distractions. “No” can be highly effective though it may be better to say “No, not right now”, or “After I am done with this”. This may give you time to complete what you are doing. And by the time you finish, the coworker may have found a solution of their own, but if not, then you can easily help them.

At times, your concentration may just run out and this can cause all types of difficulties. You may find yourself rereading the same paragraph several times or staring at the same thing on the computer and still not know what you are reading. This means you are not being effective, your brain is shutting down yet the deadline is coming closer and closer and you must complete the project. At this point it is time to disengage. Get a drink, go to the bathroom, take a short walk, anything to clear your mind. When you do this, you are making sure you are working effectively and reducing stress to low levels.

There are various exercises you can do while at your desk to help in reducing stress. Get a little stress ball and squeeze it regularly and do some stretching exercises while at your desk. When you work your muscles it helps maintain circulation and keeps you alert and aware. You won’t manage a full body workout sitting at your desk, but any amount of exercise will help to keep you focused.

If you take a look at your work space you may find that it is not comfortable for you. It may be noisy, or your desk may not be the proper height for you, or you may not be comfortable for other reasons. It may not be ergonomically correct. In order to work with as little distraction as possible you must be comfortable to avoid more stress. Having your office set up just right for you is the ticket. And addressing the little things in your office will assist you in working more consistently and confidently.

Stress in the workplace cannot be avoided. But, proper management can minimize the stress. When the stress is managed properly, work becomes more enjoyable and you end up being more productive. Taking care of yourself and your work environment first prevents stress from controlling you.

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Having More

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Posted on 1st April 2009 by CEO & Founder, Dream University in Success

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by CEO & Founder, Dream University

What does it mean to have more? Exactly, what do you want more of? Do you even know? This question forces you to schedule a short date with yourself, for the purpose of exploring what really matters to you and what you are willing to do about it.

The Irish political activist Bernadette Davis reminds us, “To gain that which is worth having, it may be necessary to lose everything else.” I know this takes unbounded courage and strength. Just remember, life is short. Live it your way. If you could create your life the way you want it, actually live by your standards, exactly what would you want more of? How about starting with some of the essential basics?

Would you like more time, more joy, more ease? How about some added extras: more money, romance, travel, friends, fun? For some, having more is about material stuff. Not only is there nothing wrong with wanting a new car or home, or taking a vacation, but in this process, you are empowered by deciding what you want.

Perhaps you have plenty of material wealth, maybe even more stuff than you need or want. Your “having more” list may actually turn into your “having less” list, as you purge and clear out the clutter. Too much of anything can be burdensome. Excess weight, whether it be in the form of pounds, people or worrisome thoughts, can be a drain.

Are you aware of where you are being weighed down or overwhelmed? Can you feel where you are being pushed and pulled? Where has “more” become too much? Whether you want more or less material property, this book will ask you to look beyond that. We’ll tap into your heart’s desires and discover what has real meaning to you. I once shared a cab home from the airport with an attorney. In his late 50’s, he appeared to be successful, but he looked awfully tired. The cab driver asked me what I do for a living.

When I told him I teach how to make dreams come true, he felt compelled to share a little of his life with us. “Twenty years ago I was fast tracking up the corporate ladder, when I decided to quit my job and drive a cab. Why? Because life’s too short to have stress and structure. The thought of continually doing more of the same made me nuts. In the last twenty years I’ve acted in a few feature films, wrote two screenplays and travelled to every continent in the world. I work when I want to, for as long as I want to. I feel totally free and love my life.” I looked over at the attorney and asked what he was thinking.

He said, “I’ve spent a lifetime working my tail off. I have a wonderful family who I hardly see, and great toys that I have no time to play with. I think I need to take a little break and revisit my priorities. But I’m nervous that if I don’t keep this pace up, my family will suffer. It’s just that if I keep going like this, I know I will have far greater regrets.” Beware of old programming that might immediately surface to squelch your creative process. Are you already starting to feel selfish or guilty? Does even the possibility of a life filled with more of what you want; bring up doubts, fears and concerns? Here’s one thing I know for sure. If you create a dream or a goal that you are more committed to than your reality, which includes your worries and doubts, and if you do something to move your dream forward every day or even weekly, you will transform your life.

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